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Question: I am having a problem of addiction.it has been 3 years me trying to quit it.but i couldnt .i cannot tell about this addiction to my parents or other relatives.butI told this to a friend(non muslim girl). so my question is can I keep a relationship with a girl untill I quit my addiction?
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I don’t understand the specific intent of your question. Are you suggesting you want to divulge this secret to a girl friend until you quit your addiction? If this is correct, I don’t see how it would help you overcome this addiction. If you are serious about overcoming this addiction, you should seek the help of a professional counselor. By keeping a girl find until you overcome the addiction, you are committing a double sin: Islam does not allow such a relationship in the first place, and on top of that, you are divulging your sin to someone else who cannot help you in any way.

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